You feel all those sexual urges and do zip about them. This is difficult, but it can be done.And it requires a great deal of willpower.
Now, I’ve actually heard of military husbands who prefer not to stoke their sexuality at all while away from their wives, because they feel it’s even harder to be reminded of what they are missing. You shut down sexually for six months.But time and distance are preventing that from happening. If you were in the same room, you’d be jumping each other’s bones and setting off those fireworks. You’re engaging together as much as possible, while at different ends of the Earth. What you’re describing, though, isn’t solo masturbation. However, it’s ultimately more fulfilling. Because it takes more communication and connection to have your husband bring you to climax, or vice versa. If you get overly used to that form of sexual satisfaction, it can be difficult to be patient and adaptable in the presence of your beloved to make things happen. It is indeed quicker and easier for most people to reach orgasm using their own hands, because we have a feedback loop for what feels good and can immediately adjust. If that’s happening in a marriage, it needs to stop. Of course, excessive masturbation or touching yourself while looking at or picturing others are problems. Summarizing what I’ve said before, masturbation is not biblically wrong, it’s fine in the marriage when mutual engagement is part of the sex act, and masturbation should not take sexual energy away from your spouse. Q&A with J: “Is It Okay for Him to Please Himself While Thinking of Me?” More Candid Conversation about Masturbation Two Wives & Candid Conversation about Masturbation So let me first point out those posts that deal specifically with masturbation: I’ve written about masturbation before, and I won’t be able to do as thorough a treatment of that topic here. I guess what I am asking is, should there be shame here? I’m so torn. It doesnt involve anyone else and were doing it together. However, I also know that it is time spent with my husband, keeping our marriage strong. I’m not terribly comfortable with it because I’ve been told so many times that masturbation is wrong. We have started to use skype for “skype sex”. Obviously, this means that we are unable to be intimate during the time that he is away (fireworks when he’s home). My husband works away from home (over seas) for up to six months at a time. But while I could find a post about sexting your spouse, I couldn’t find one specifically about having “Skype sex.” So I’m tackling it today. When I first read the following question, I thought surely I’d answered it before.
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